Just as the inner Hermosa-voice is a good influence on Dexie, the inner Dexie-voice is a good influence on Hermosa.
Hermosa (thinking): My “hiding secret information” tactics date back to before the memory loss . . .
Hermosa: That’s not — I wouldn’t have —
Inner voice of loving-kindness: What if you did, though? Is it fair to yell at her when you’re not sure?
Inner voice of self-indulgence: You worked so hard (probably), and the effort was wasted? Sounds like time to just give up.
Inner voice of spouse: Nnnnnope!
Do NOT let her shake your self-confidence. She’s totally messing with you. But also, don’t keep arguing, you’ll just tip her off about more ways to mess with you.